10-27-2012, 03:31 PM
(10-27-2012, 02:35 AM)zenmaster Wrote:(10-26-2012, 02:40 PM)BlatzAdict Wrote:(10-25-2012, 11:48 PM)zenmaster Wrote: Women tend to be biased to feeling and men to thinking.
yea love and light hahaha
http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cd...n-Trap.htm
There's a lot of truth in what you say. At the same time, let's remember that many women are deep thinkers and many men "feel" deeply. And many or most of us have had many lives in both types of body.
I think it's important to be able to experience one's own feelings enough to know, for example, "I am happy now. I like being with this person now. I like eating this type of food. This type of work makes me feel good. That type of work bores me. I like feeling good."
It's also important to be able to "feel" more complex things, such as "I am afraid to be alone." Actually this is both a thought and a feeling. The "feeling" is just an unpleasant body sensation. The "thought" is, "Being Alone." It's good to use thinking and feeling working together to figure out, "I am afraid of being alone." Takes both, in other words, to know what's going on inside.