03-02-2010, 06:09 PM
Gee when I was 23 back in the day... I had sex often and frequently sometimes several times a day... sometimes never leaving bed!I considered it a joy and rite of passage to do so! The exploration of my beingness through learning with others... LOL ! Sometimes it was GREAT and others not so much... sometimes I was just there and it was all about their process... over time I became aware of those "types." At the time I called them the 30 second men. LOL
Ahhhh... that was before kids. Now-- It is more complicated...
To be 23 again and to have the body back...before giving away to the making of children... brings back memories...
Enjoy connecting with others in a way that is healthy and responsible. There is no wrong or right--- only isness and experience... Learn from your experiences. If something is not for you... simply choose again. Pull cords when necessary with love and firm gentleness. Every experience is challenge by choice... if you do not wish to do not do.
Also--- if something is addictive to you... then do it until it no longer holds interest to you. Repetively over 3 days time--- it will exhaust the illusion and allow you to see TRUTH.
The Great Rite is a Beautiful and opening expansive experience. Ecstatic! But there is also connecting and sharing with others to be considered.
A way one can view the whole having sex alot is that practice makes perfect. A competent partner is soooo much better than one that fumbles around obliviously and is self-absorbed in thier own process.
I found the book Tantric Quest to be quite enlightening.
fairyfarmgirl
Ahhhh... that was before kids. Now-- It is more complicated...
To be 23 again and to have the body back...before giving away to the making of children... brings back memories...
Enjoy connecting with others in a way that is healthy and responsible. There is no wrong or right--- only isness and experience... Learn from your experiences. If something is not for you... simply choose again. Pull cords when necessary with love and firm gentleness. Every experience is challenge by choice... if you do not wish to do not do.
Also--- if something is addictive to you... then do it until it no longer holds interest to you. Repetively over 3 days time--- it will exhaust the illusion and allow you to see TRUTH.
The Great Rite is a Beautiful and opening expansive experience. Ecstatic! But there is also connecting and sharing with others to be considered.
A way one can view the whole having sex alot is that practice makes perfect. A competent partner is soooo much better than one that fumbles around obliviously and is self-absorbed in thier own process.
I found the book Tantric Quest to be quite enlightening.
fairyfarmgirl