04-08-2013, 11:01 PM
It almost sounds as though those girls had specific expectations of what a 'lover' should be vs who you are as human being/citizen of eternity.
Also, I am almost sure there are extreme difficulties with language/understanding/semantics of the word 'love' vs the concept of romantic love on this planet.
Just a few months ago I realized how difficult it is to having a meaningful romantic relationship with someone unless you truly incarnated together with the intention of being in such a relationship. I was separated with my wife at the time pending a divorce and had absolutely no expectation of ever being with her again. I accepted it was likely I would spend this incarnation without a significant romantic other. It was at this time my wife finally (after 7 years of unhappy marriage) saw and accepted me for who I am and our relationship has been blissful since then. It came as a complete surprise as I made the proclamation that either my soul mate would manifest herself or I would spend this incarnation 'stag'.
Also, I am almost sure there are extreme difficulties with language/understanding/semantics of the word 'love' vs the concept of romantic love on this planet.
Just a few months ago I realized how difficult it is to having a meaningful romantic relationship with someone unless you truly incarnated together with the intention of being in such a relationship. I was separated with my wife at the time pending a divorce and had absolutely no expectation of ever being with her again. I accepted it was likely I would spend this incarnation without a significant romantic other. It was at this time my wife finally (after 7 years of unhappy marriage) saw and accepted me for who I am and our relationship has been blissful since then. It came as a complete surprise as I made the proclamation that either my soul mate would manifest herself or I would spend this incarnation 'stag'.
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