Different Kinds of Love

[Meerie]

Did you talk to the girls Eternal? and ask what they want out of a relationship and what they expect from you?
and tell them about your views of love and relationships?
Communication is so important.
Re the "didn't do the things that they believe indicate deeper love for them" I can only say.. there is a general difference between men and women in relationships that stems from the fact that the first person of the other sex that one encounters in life is either absent (in the case of women, the dad is usually at work and not "available" most of the time) or present (in the case of men, since mums still mostly do the childraising).
In many cases that leads men in relationships to take their partner for granted, and women to be clingy, because it sort of relates back to that first experience in childhood that they had.
I am of course speaking generally, this is not always so, and we all know the traditional family model is not as prevalent anymore but I observed that in myself and others quite a few times.
Therefore women might react in a sensitive way if they think their needs are not being met or that the man does not love them enough.