Sexual addiction! and Male-Female energy roles/energies

[Biu_Tze]

I too feel that it is a contributing factor, but that shouldn't mean I'm any less responsible for the actions I choose to take, I do feel that some of my reactions or actions are due in some portion to what I see. Now, I am the one choosing to respond in the way I do, or did, and that is my responsibility, that's part of the challenge for us as males. To responsibly do what we feel is right in these situations, hopefully what we feel is right is a healthy balance. I think what we we're trying to say was that the visual aspect of it, can make it more difficult, not that it is less of our responsibility because it's something ingrained in us, which I do believe it is, based on my personal experience, and shared information of other men, which I can't verify to the fullest extent.
I absolutely agree, the woman body is not for the taking, or the having, it's not here to pleasure men. Part of why I dislike porn so much, is that I feel by watching these things alone, we are contributing to more and more females being put into that situation, willing or unwillingly, I feel both are very sad and unfortunate outcomes. I tend to be more sympathetic to those who are forced into it. But to willingly partake in something to me means, that.. they don't care about themselves or their fellow women, which is truly heart breaking, I would assume someone forced into it would have a greater sense of truth because of this.. I suppose this is all speculation on my part tho. I love how passionate you are about this fairy! I sense the potential for people to feel guilty about this, which In my opinion would be a good thing, to an extent, only to open their eyes to new possibilities and try to incorporate them into their belief system. I try to see all woman as my sister mother friend lover ect ect. For some reason I have in the past had a disconnect from that in terms of what I saw on the internet. It didn't seem real to me. In real life my morals are unbendable, and I hope soon that my lustful desire for porn subsides. I know I can refrain from doing it, accepting that I have these urges I can do too, but how then do I go about exploring them, without hurting anybody, myself included, (yay for me!) is another matter. Thanks so much for posting, I wish for you the best in loving those who have done so much wrong, it is something I have been trying to do for some time, I can rationalize, oh they are hurting themselves, and others, those poor ignorant creatures, but that just doesn't seem to change the way I feel about them. I'm going to have to keep exploring ways in which I can accomplish this.
Much Love -group hug-