Sexual addiction! and Male-Female energy roles/energies

[thefool]

Here's another suggestion: you might consider throwing caution to the winds and surrender yourself to joyful abandon...try doing it every day for awhile and see what happens! Without any judgement or expectation on the 'quality' of the experience, just be there in the moment, and accept it for what it is...you just might be surprised! And he might be so appreciative that his heart chakra might just open!

You have said exactly I was going to say but perhaps you said it more eloquently so i am going to leave it at that

You can enjoy all aspects of sexuality including the Red Ray exchange. It is nothing to be looked down upon. Fulfillment at Red Ray will lead you to higher rays but you can not skip a step and jump to Green before you had a chance to explore Red Ray first. Fortunately or unfortunately this is how it works in 3D

[Edited]: Perhaps you may want to consider a non-sexual activity where his heart is completely open in. For example: If he likes Horse Riding then buy two rides for him and go together. His heart will be open and excited and you will get your emotional fulfillment being with him when he is so open and happy. It is a win win and a recipe for a great sex later on