06-10-2013, 01:47 PM
Q'uo Wrote:And so, you choose not only your parents and the main relationship of your life, whether it be a mate or a friend, you also set into position a good deal of redundancy so that no matter how many times you walk away from a situation that is shaped thus and so, you will find yourself coming into a relationship which carries those characteristics from which you wish to learn.
We can assure you that you did not simply have it “in for yourself” as this instrument would say. You were not attempting to torture yourself with relationships that were challenging. You were looking to find the love within that relationship and to open to that. You were hoping that the catalyst received during that relationship would lead you to new realizations, new and deeper understandings, new insights.
I have most definitely noticed this in my life. I noticed a girl I work with is a 'doppelganger' of my wife. I noticed this when I was in a rough patch with my wife and realized that I couldn't simply 'escape' the relationship. Noticing this was extremely helpful to me in being more accepting of the relationships I chose for myself.
PS. Thanks to spero for digging up this Q'uo'te in another thread.