Relationships: what are the good ingredients?

[Plenum]

as mentioned in another thread, the ability the share green-ray transfers seems to be the basis of any good (lasting) significant-other relationship.

it greatly facilitates the process of each teaching each:

32.5 The first giving beyond green ray is the giving of acceptance or freedom, thus allowing the recipient of blue-ray energy transfer the opportunity for a feeling of being accepted, thus freeing that other-self to express itself to the giver of this ray. It will be noted that once green-ray energy transfer has been achieved by two mind/body/spirits in mating, the further rays are available without both entities having the necessity to progress equally. Thus a blue-ray vibrating entity or indigo-ray vibrating entity whose other ray vibrations are clear may share that energy with the green-ray other-self, thus acting as catalyst for the continued learn/teaching of the other-self. Until an other-self reaches green ray, such energy transfers through the rays is not possible.

and sometimes the woman behind the man in power is the true teacher:

"35.2 Questioner: Two things I would like to clear up. Then Franklin’s teacher was his wife? Is this correct?

Ra: I am Ra. This is correct."

at this stage of my experience I am not actively seeking a 'mate'; but earlier in the year I did clear up some issues about 'resisting' the possibility of a long term relationship ... most of those 'resistances' having to do with not thinking that I was capable of sustaining such a commitment, or that no-one would find me a suitable match in any case. (I've been single most of my life, except for a handful of periods).

but yeah, we all make incarnational life-plans and some of those do not include a long term mate, and thats cool too.

some women (men) program themselves not to have the ability to have children:

31.6 Questioner: I was wondering if there was some principle behind the fact that a sexual union does not necessarily lead to fertilization. I’m not interested in the chemical or physical principles of it. I’m interested in whether or not there is some metaphysical principle that leads to the couple having a child or not, or is it purely random?

Ra: I am Ra. This is random within certain limits. If an entity has reached the seniority whereby it chooses the basic structure of the life experience, this entity may then choose to incarnate in a physical complex which is not capable of reproduction. Thus we find some entities which have chosen to be unfertile. Other entities, through free will, make use of various devices to insure nonfertility. Except for these conditions, the condition is random.

one of my close friends had his marriage breakdown becuz they couldn't agree on having children or not (infertility was not an issue, just threw that in there as a possible example of friction).

but I guess that was all a bit of a random soup of data ... but I know that relationships (and lasting ones at that) are on people's minds a lot, no matter what the age group. I end with the infamous complete fusion nature quote which I find eternally amusing:

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"Fourth-density Wanderers, of which there are not many, will tend to choose those entities which seem to be full of love or in need of love. There is the great possibility/probability of entities making errors in judgment due to the compassion with which other-selves are viewed.

The fifth-density Wanderer is one who is not tremendously affected by the stimulus of the various rays of other-self and in its own way offers itself when a need is seen. Such entities are not likely to engage in the, shall we say, custom of your peoples called marriage and are very likely to feel an aversion to childbearing and child-raising due to the awareness of the impropriety of the planetary vibrations relative to the harmonious vibrations of the density of light.

The sixth-density, whose means of propagation you may liken to what you call fusion, is likely to refrain, to a great extent, from the bisexual reproductive programming of the bodily complex and instead seek out those with whom the sexual energy transfer is of the complete fusion nature in so far as this is possible in manifestation in third density.

32.10 Questioner: Can you expand a little bit on what you mean by “complete fusion nature?”

Ra: I am Ra. The entire creation is of the One Creator. Thus the division of sexual activity into simply that of the bodily complex is an artificial division, all things thusly being seen as sexual equally, the mind, the body, and the spirit; all of which are part of the polarity of the entity. Thus sexual fusion may be seen with or without what you may call sexual intercourse to be the complete melding of the mind, the body, and the spirit in what feels to be a constant orgasm, shall we say, of joy and delight each in the other’s beingness.

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your experiences and thoughts most welcome!!

plenum

ummmm. Constant. Orgasm.

yes please.

"feels to be a constant orgasm, shall we say, of joy and delight each in the other’s beingness."