Sexism

[Melissa]

Do you have big boobs?

See, it would be nice if this comment didn't feel like a punch in my stomach.

I may be overly sensitive (that's what I've been told my entire life) or perhaps I care too much about what other people think of me and how they interact with each other. I've always put a lot of energy in trying to control my environment, meaning; influencing people towards harmony. Which isn't the most healthy way to go about it and has served mainly as a survival strategy. Sometimes I still feel like a toddler really, looking at how the grownups go about it and not understanding any of it.
No self pity intended.