Good deeds and politeness will not polarize you alone.

[Adonai One]

The key to positive polarization is not exclusively giving to others, being polite to them nor for all appearances being a "good" person. In other words, polarization does not rely on your perceived "kindness." On the surface it may seem such but getting into polarization with a mindset only focusing on appearances and actions alone will not get the job done. The key to polarizing is a genuine desire to truly get to know and understand your fellow man; To truly unite with them in heart and mind, truly feeling the desires of others as they are your own--even the ugliest ones at hand.

Acting in "service" to others with only a desire of appearing charitable, doing it only in a self-interested goal of appearing positive will not ascend you to a higher status of unity by any means. With this in mind, you will be surprised to find that many seemingly stern, dark and angry people are often very compassionate and harvestable because at their core they act with love.

In summary, feigning kindness will not get you anywhere. Feigning harmony and peace with all around you--while inside you're suffering and sacrificing--will not polarize you. What will is truly accepting and embracing everything that is in front of you. The appearance of it is only the icing on the cake.

There will be no judgement, no gauging of morality after this life of yours. There will only be an objective gauge of how much of the universe you are truly united with at your core.