Good deeds and politeness will not polarize you alone.

[spero]

your post reminded me of this

82.29 Questioner: You stated in a much earlier session that it is necessary to polarize anything more than 50% service to self to be harvestable fourth-density positive. Was this condition the same at the time before the veil? The same percentage polarization?
Ra: I am Ra. This shall be the last full query of this working.

The query is not answered easily, for the concept of service to self did not hold sway previous to what we have been calling the veiling process. The necessity for graduation to fourth density is an ability to use, welcome, and enjoy a certain intensity of the white light of the One Infinite Creator. In your own terms at your space/time nexus this ability may be measured by your previously stated percentages of service.

Prior to the veiling process the measurement would be that of an entity walking up a set of your stairs, each of which was imbued with a certain quality of light. The stair upon which an entity stopped would be either third-density light or fourth-density light. Between the two stairs lies the threshold. To cross that threshold is difficult. There is resistance at the edge, shall we say, of each density. The faculty of faith or will needs to be understood, nourished, and developed in order to have an entity which seeks past the boundary of third density. Those entities which do not do their homework, be they ever so amiable, shall not cross. It was this situation which faced the Logoi prior to the veiling process being introduced into the experiential continuum of third density.

May we ask if there are any brief queries at this working?

In a pre-veiling universe where being amiable (aka polite) was the norm, the movement through the densities still required something more.

that said, its not necessarily feigning kindness when the attempt at compassion falls short of actually feeling true green ray love.

85.16

...It may take many, many essays into compassion before true universal love is the product of the attempted opening and crystallization of this all-important springboard energy center. Thus the student may discover many other components to what may seem to be all-embracing love. Each of these components may be balanced and accepted as part of the self and as transitional material as the entity’s seat of learn/teaching moves ever more fairly into the green ray...

After all that though, i still agree with you that external appearances of seeming positive isnt the same as positive polarization. It could even be argued that a "self-interested goal of appearing positive" is a tactic more suitable to a sts polarized individual.

At its simplest, positive polarization entails the opening and crystallisation of the heart chakra through attempting and maintaining and attitude of universal/unconditional love. I believe this is what you mean when you describe the heart of positive polarization as "accepting and embracing everything that is in front of you".