Good deeds and politeness will not polarize you alone.

[BrownEye]

I see polarization as a result of awareness which results from curiosity and determination.

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Open up to possiblities, open up to the universal flow, allow the self to be a conduit for change.

From there we can see either focused change on the self, or focused change on the other selves. Focused change on the self is fine with the intention of enabling the self to better be of service to other selves.