09-03-2013, 11:43 AM
Quote:Not to mention, monogamy is another societal judgment. I'm not saying that people should not respect their relationships, rather, unconditional love in its real sense would not include any desire to isolate a sexual partner. Monogamy would happen naturally if at all--it simply wouldn't matter.
I, personally, have experienced more judgement about being monogamous than otherwise. Why is it deemed to be an 'unnatural' desire? I have never really related unconditional love to sexuality except in terms of acceptance of each individual's sexual bias, I don't see why interest in one partner is deemed 'isolation'.
On topic, I found, for myself, that I had to be ready for the meeting with my significant other. We are all going through many experiences and sometimes it seems we have to go through periods of experience where we may not know what we want or not fully understand what we believe we want and so we experience catalyst which may help us to get more in touch with ourselves and thus open us to be able to recognize that divine mirror that is an other-self.