Two souls permanently becoming one...

[zenmaster]

What do you mean by identity in that context? I just used "playing the part" as an expression of the choice to unify intentions in order to work together. Perhaps what it suggests is misleading.

The unity without identity essentially entails completion, as in you have actualized something even more than your higher self. You don't just suddenly actualize more than your higher self. The finger pointing at the moon is not the moon.