what did you learn today?

[Horuseus]

I realised it isn't necessarily an 'Individual' in ones life that causes a seemingly negative reaction (Due to some transgression in the past), but rather what belief(s)/Unaccepted aspects of Self that Individual represents. A person which affords a certain Catalyst (Say a controlling/abusive Parent) only acts as a 'token symbol' within 3D reality for triggering the concepts/ideas of Control/Abuse/Authority within the Psyche of the individual experiencing said Catalyst. In other words the Parent is only a symbol for certain beliefs one 'rejects' or has not fully addressed.

This takes the lengthy process out of addressing each Individual which triggers a negative emotion (Which are only half measures) by going directly to the root cause. Once the belief/aspect has been addressed and brought into alignment, the 'symbol' (That was the word given) ceases to be an issue any longer. To put it in simpler terms you've found the button and have had it removed, and so you can no longer press what isn't 'there'.

In one of my sessions I was 'told' something similar a few months back:

"HS: Yes, each object in the physical world is merely a symbol. This symbol triggers a certain meaning within your psyche. A bed Is not a bed to you, but symbolises comfort, safety and so forth. This feeling of comfort, safety etc carriers a certain frequency. Your dream experiences are really symbolical equivalents when the frequencies are being translated. (...) Your conscious mind can only use the resources it has to form the nearest translation."