01-26-2014, 11:31 PM
(01-26-2014, 11:11 PM)Folk-love Wrote:(01-26-2014, 09:19 PM)Icaro Wrote: Settling into the mind-frame where one is the victim feels safe, and believe it or not, we find comfort in that state of mind because of its familiarity. The sadness is a familiar state that we can fall back into.
This is absolutely true for me. It really does take a lot of strength to change this, especially when you've been playing the victim for many years. It really requires getting out of your comfort. I'm just struggling with what to do with my time. I don't want to spend any of it pursuing things which make me depressed. This is why I dropped out of uni and can't find a job worth holding on to.
The victim role is in line with the martyr, which is an overbalance of heart chakra energy. Maybe you are constantly giving of yourself but not allowing a return of energy, or not using discernment/wisdom to learn how to say no or sever ties with the one in the abuser role.
Sounds like dropping out of school and work may be you choosing to use your discernment, so good luck to you in finding your path. My best advice is to try to find what feels the best, and really, truly indulge in it, ask to be of service, and trust that your path will unfold before you.