The essence of opening the green ray is acceptance, of both yourself and your lover.
Accepting yourself is the foundation, because without doing so, fears act as a vice around the heart and it's ability to share.
Accepting the other self builds upon this foundation. Loving them for who they are in their entirety.
Combine those two and, quite naturally and effortlessly, your desires will not be of lust, but of genuine service.
As a general guideline, lust is founded in fantasy, which by definition, is not the moment (and hence not with your partner as they are). Service in lovemaking is founded in the moment, and in the moment fully. Diverting all of your open and accepting attention to the moment - touch, taste, smell, all of it - is the sign of green (and higher) ray lovemaking.
Accepting yourself is the foundation, because without doing so, fears act as a vice around the heart and it's ability to share.
Accepting the other self builds upon this foundation. Loving them for who they are in their entirety.
Combine those two and, quite naturally and effortlessly, your desires will not be of lust, but of genuine service.
As a general guideline, lust is founded in fantasy, which by definition, is not the moment (and hence not with your partner as they are). Service in lovemaking is founded in the moment, and in the moment fully. Diverting all of your open and accepting attention to the moment - touch, taste, smell, all of it - is the sign of green (and higher) ray lovemaking.
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