Seeking advice

[Melissa]

Thanks Melissa. He asked before moving in if I would "help" him to become more adult and teach him independence. Since he has moved in, he works a minimum wage job for 36 hours and is unable some months to pay the rent in full that we agreed on.

I have not told him that his dishonesty is a big factor....

I guess I view him as a child in an adult body. I honestly don't know if he literally can't grow up or won't grow up.

Well, by being honest towards him about your feelings you're creating an opportunity for the both of you to connect in a more sincere manner. Perhaps this will assist you both in making a choice.