Current dilemma

[isis]

taking welfare is a dangerous trap that is very hard to get out of.

sounds to me like u should just leave it & apply for welfare

Why???

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bc it was 1 of the 2 options she gave & the other seemed more depressing bc she said she's "met with untruths, hostility and disrespectful behavior" & "all this crap is just tiring and saddening" & that she's not looking forward to trying to get the wrong righted bc she doesn't kno if she can put up w/ another "you just should not have signed it" or something like that...

so naturally i thought she should just go with the easy/light option, the welfare option, & forget about the other 1 for now til she feels strong/ready enough to deal with it in order to see if anything can, in fact, be done

also i wasn't aware that "taking welfare is a dangerous trap that is very hard to get out of" & i'm not sure u're correct. i'll have to research it