anyone in the denver/boulder area? i need your help!

[Melissa]

Hi there! The only advice I can offer you, after experiencing similar situations is to wait (if you can), until you're able to be happy and feel at peace with yourself. No place, job, friend/family can ever provide that for you. If you enjoy your work perhaps you can take the time to reflect and find a teacher to assist you on finding that peace within, and save some money in the meantime. That way you're expanding your 'future' housing options aswell. I can relate to how you feel, these situations can be quite the challenge but it gets easier, and a lot more fun once you recognize the patterns (choice of relationships etc), the roots and your behavior. Good luck on deciding what's best for you, take care.