Also, another thing. Fantasy. Fantasy visualisations.
I read in a book once that a women that had been raped by her step father used fantasies of being raped to uncover hidden elements of the situation (her mothers complicity, and motives for that.)
I wonder if people have experienced also fantasizing about something that reveals some strong element of anothers personality?
I also feel that when I fantasize about women, often the fantasy will do it's own thing and some of these imaginations will refuse my 'chosen' fantasy for instance. And some, almost all infact seem to reveal something about the girl.
I read in a book once that a women that had been raped by her step father used fantasies of being raped to uncover hidden elements of the situation (her mothers complicity, and motives for that.)
I wonder if people have experienced also fantasizing about something that reveals some strong element of anothers personality?
I also feel that when I fantasize about women, often the fantasy will do it's own thing and some of these imaginations will refuse my 'chosen' fantasy for instance. And some, almost all infact seem to reveal something about the girl.