05-01-2014, 06:32 PM
But by focusing upon that which will not solve anything nor will it happen until the time is right can inhibit any progress that you could be making in the meantime. Trust me brother, I know life can suck. It's pretty dreadful for me right now also with the realization that I'm about to yet again lose my independence and be relegated to living with my parents again barring some miracle. But I know that dwelling upon such a situation that I am powerless to control solves nothing. In the end, I can still provide the service to the patients that I help and to those friends with whom I help.
I'd rather struggle and bring a smile to anothers face then take a job that pays more yet lacks substance and fails to provide what I would consider a worthwhile service to others. So I struggle and work two jobs nearly killing myself with exhaustion and negating the possibility of finding a mate because of it.
The entire premise behind the STO polarity is sacrifice brother. Putting yourself into the uncomfortable position so that an other self can be helped. Giving up ones desires so that an other selfs can be fulfilled. A sacrifice that hurts at times and a lot even more times but knowing that you helped someone at the end is what makes it all worth it.
I'd rather struggle and bring a smile to anothers face then take a job that pays more yet lacks substance and fails to provide what I would consider a worthwhile service to others. So I struggle and work two jobs nearly killing myself with exhaustion and negating the possibility of finding a mate because of it.
The entire premise behind the STO polarity is sacrifice brother. Putting yourself into the uncomfortable position so that an other self can be helped. Giving up ones desires so that an other selfs can be fulfilled. A sacrifice that hurts at times and a lot even more times but knowing that you helped someone at the end is what makes it all worth it.