You are not your feelings

[Adonai One]

The person experiencing bodily masochism simply accepts the body's rejection of physical harm.

Emotional masochism would connote the acceptance of the rejection of certain experiences so far that it would further accept a willful repeating of such experiences while potentially negating the possibility of feeling pleasure.

It is still a series of acceptances and rejections just in regards to previous biases that are enjoyed by invocation.