07-17-2010, 01:08 PM
Sometimes a Shaman is actually a Master manipulator. MM's always seek those who are healers but have not stepped into their power due to boundary issues.
Stand Tall sister for you are an Angel after all. Start by seeking out which emotions and impressions are really yours and then begin to define yourself based on what is yours not theirs.
Not all Shaman are MM's only the ones that are pretending in order to steal from others. They are very good catalyst for learning to stand up and take responsibilty for your own boundaries. This is challenging to see. It seems that you are beginning to see this from your post. Good Job!
You are wise to work on yourSelf at this time. Being in a relationship when you are new to maintaining your own healthy boundaries is a test that is premature. It is wise to shore up your own boat before sailing off into the sunset. Leaky boats tend to take on water and ultimately sink. Since you are chosing to Float your Boat this is a wise decision.
I know a thing or two about being swamped by a leaky boat. Figuratively and literally. I Bless your HEART with LOVE.
As for my relationship-- it is truly magical as I shored up my boat and am floating in a sea of Love that is a joy to behold. Keeping that boat of mine floating takes work... and my dear mate is a true gem... so no stealing of power... but a building of energy through equal exchange of nuturance and mutual respect. The trip though took a long while... and if I had had the foresight to recognize the negative catalyst before hubby I would have found him sooner instead of later. All is well, now.
fairyfarmgirl
Stand Tall sister for you are an Angel after all. Start by seeking out which emotions and impressions are really yours and then begin to define yourself based on what is yours not theirs.
Not all Shaman are MM's only the ones that are pretending in order to steal from others. They are very good catalyst for learning to stand up and take responsibilty for your own boundaries. This is challenging to see. It seems that you are beginning to see this from your post. Good Job!
You are wise to work on yourSelf at this time. Being in a relationship when you are new to maintaining your own healthy boundaries is a test that is premature. It is wise to shore up your own boat before sailing off into the sunset. Leaky boats tend to take on water and ultimately sink. Since you are chosing to Float your Boat this is a wise decision.
I know a thing or two about being swamped by a leaky boat. Figuratively and literally. I Bless your HEART with LOVE.
As for my relationship-- it is truly magical as I shored up my boat and am floating in a sea of Love that is a joy to behold. Keeping that boat of mine floating takes work... and my dear mate is a true gem... so no stealing of power... but a building of energy through equal exchange of nuturance and mutual respect. The trip though took a long while... and if I had had the foresight to recognize the negative catalyst before hubby I would have found him sooner instead of later. All is well, now.
fairyfarmgirl