02-12-2015, 01:04 PM
(This post was last modified: 02-12-2015, 01:05 PM by outerheaven.)
My grandma (paternal side) passed away in October. Actually she was my Nonna: she met my Grandpa during WWII in Italy, and he brought her to America after the war. She lived a long life, had many kids and a large loving family both here and in Italy, and her passing was very peaceful and painless. After she passed, I hoped/intended that she might visit me in a dream and let me know how she was. Finally had such a dream last night.
In the dream, I was at my Grandpa's house (he's still alive). I went into the kitchen and saw my Dad, my aunt, and ... my Nonna, watching the food cook over the stovetop, where she always was. I turned to my Dad and my Aunt and kinda tried to read the expression on their faces, to see if they saw what I did. They just looked at me strangely, wondering what was up.
"Don't you see, Dad? Nonna is here -- she's here with us!" I said.
Nonna turned around, a huge smile on her face, so happy that I could see her. She came up and hugged me and held on to me and told me to repeat to them what she said: she was fine, everything was fine, and everyone was very, very loved and not to worry about a thing. (I was hoping she would give me some piece of crucial information that would *prove* that she was actually there -- but those were the messages she felt needed to be shared. Kinda funny and probably what would happen anyhow if you were talking with someone from the other side.)
Unfortunately, my Dad and Aunt both look at me kind of sideways. My Aunt says something to suggest that I am "not quite well" or might have some issues. Dad agrees with her. I pick up on their vibes of doubt, worry, concern, etc. I'm disappointed, but not surprised. And so in adjusting to their energy vibrations, I lose my ability to perceive Nonna. This wasn't a sad happening -- like she slowly, sadly fizzled out of existence and I'm tearing out my hair and screaming no -- it just simply was. And I felt there was something to be learned from that.
At least, afterward, my Dad/Aunt leave the room and I tell my other two Aunts, who are much more supportive and are inclined to believe that my experience was real.
So yeah. That's my dream.
In the dream, I was at my Grandpa's house (he's still alive). I went into the kitchen and saw my Dad, my aunt, and ... my Nonna, watching the food cook over the stovetop, where she always was. I turned to my Dad and my Aunt and kinda tried to read the expression on their faces, to see if they saw what I did. They just looked at me strangely, wondering what was up.
"Don't you see, Dad? Nonna is here -- she's here with us!" I said.
Nonna turned around, a huge smile on her face, so happy that I could see her. She came up and hugged me and held on to me and told me to repeat to them what she said: she was fine, everything was fine, and everyone was very, very loved and not to worry about a thing. (I was hoping she would give me some piece of crucial information that would *prove* that she was actually there -- but those were the messages she felt needed to be shared. Kinda funny and probably what would happen anyhow if you were talking with someone from the other side.)
Unfortunately, my Dad and Aunt both look at me kind of sideways. My Aunt says something to suggest that I am "not quite well" or might have some issues. Dad agrees with her. I pick up on their vibes of doubt, worry, concern, etc. I'm disappointed, but not surprised. And so in adjusting to their energy vibrations, I lose my ability to perceive Nonna. This wasn't a sad happening -- like she slowly, sadly fizzled out of existence and I'm tearing out my hair and screaming no -- it just simply was. And I felt there was something to be learned from that.
At least, afterward, my Dad/Aunt leave the room and I tell my other two Aunts, who are much more supportive and are inclined to believe that my experience was real.
So yeah. That's my dream.