^^^^ Exactly that. Lust is transcended when it is replaced with love, a much higher expression of the same attractive impulse. Although your fetish is not harming anyone, it may be preventing you from being able to fully engage in loving, person - to - person relationships, which would provide a wealth of opportunities for learning and spiritual growth.
You may consider asking yourself if there is some aspect of relating to other humans that feels scary or uncomfortable to you? If so, that might indicate an area to work on, perhaps with the help of your therapist. Because, friend, sooner or later, you'll have to - and it will make your life better when you do. So might as well get started
You may consider asking yourself if there is some aspect of relating to other humans that feels scary or uncomfortable to you? If so, that might indicate an area to work on, perhaps with the help of your therapist. Because, friend, sooner or later, you'll have to - and it will make your life better when you do. So might as well get started
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