05-14-2015, 11:30 PM
(05-14-2015, 05:05 PM)Tan.rar Wrote: Let me ask, what is your own image of the ideal relationship, sexual or otherwise?
Ideally? I always desired a level of devotion, in the sense of personally towards a lover, you don't give up on them if you love them. I just woke up, i can't think of the word...
If we're not for each other, why am I bothering?
As far as sexually goes, golden rule. Reciprocation aside, my sexual life is mostly giving and rarely recieving.
Isis, I think a major concern is overall. We live in a society that degrades sex, or at least I do according to the TV programming. I dont care if they're doing it a bit. I care when its so much I feel like I have to worry feeling like a weird freak who finds lingerie worn by kids attractive. I as a guy find lingerie attractive. I don't like it on people who aren't even half my age (11). Its a society thing, when did children sexualizing themselves so early become a trend?
You know what's attractive? Jeans, oh and a sweatshirt that's Comfy, or just comfy clothes. Oh and underwear, that isn't showing under whatever weird super mini short skirt I once saw. Oh but hey. I'm insensitive I've been toldfor caring how a...apparently as young as 8 year old can walk around a public crowded place, with like 15-20% of their body not showing?
I thought being attracted to children was wrong in society, why is dressing them up attractively not as well? Yet I can't use that reason as a reason.
At the very heart of this issue, I look at it as if I had an 8+ year old daughter, I wouldn't want men 3 to 4 times her age checking her out... maybe that's more my problem than society's.