05-15-2015, 01:51 PM
If they don't care then I don't care. Live & let live & then watch your frustrations fall away. Do what thou wilt. Fashion is a matter of taste. Where you're seeing someone dressing like a "slut" or "object" or "someone in training to be a trophy wife" or "someone trying to get f***** & then dropped" someone else could just be seeing a really cute outfit...or a female ovulating.
Gag about how people dress if you want...but I think the best way to go is to try to not let it bother you. Wanting to control others to conform to your standards sounds like a bad idea to me. Freedom of expression is important. Fashion is a way people express themselves.
We live & we learn. If someone finds they're getting a lot of *unwanted* attention bc of how they're dressing then I'm sure they'll start dressing differently. You might want to try relaxing about it & to stop judging them for what they're wearing & to stop judging yourself for the reactions they're getting out of you.
Gag about how people dress if you want...but I think the best way to go is to try to not let it bother you. Wanting to control others to conform to your standards sounds like a bad idea to me. Freedom of expression is important. Fashion is a way people express themselves.
We live & we learn. If someone finds they're getting a lot of *unwanted* attention bc of how they're dressing then I'm sure they'll start dressing differently. You might want to try relaxing about it & to stop judging them for what they're wearing & to stop judging yourself for the reactions they're getting out of you.
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