05-15-2015, 06:19 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-15-2015, 06:20 PM by VanAlioSaldo.)
(05-15-2015, 01:51 PM)isis Wrote: If they don't care then I don't care. Live & let live & then watch your frustrations fall away. Do what thou wilt. Fashion is a matter of taste. Where you're seeing someone dressing like a "slut" or "object" or "someone in training to be a trophy wife" or "someone trying to get f***** & then dropped" someone else could just be seeing a really cute outfit...or a female ovulating.
Gag about how people dress if you want...but I think the best way to go is to try to not let it bother you. Wanting to control others to conform to your standards sounds like a bad idea to me. Freedom of expression is important. Fashion is a way people express themselves.
We live & we learn. If someone finds they're getting a lot of *unwanted* attention bc of how they're dressing then I'm sure they'll start dressing differently. You might want to try relaxing about it & to stop judging them for what they're wearing & to stop judging yourself for the reactions they're getting out of you.
Yeah, I can very much agree with you there. Just me caring too much again I guess.
I don't understand, but then again it seems there are many things about this world, the ways of humanity, and society, that are so... Normal for everyone else that are so...Confusing to me. You tell me I'm being judgmental but then seem to disregard my point of view for your own. I think after a certain point, we're both wrong and right in both areas in the sense of I want people to be as you describe, I just wish some more care would be taken in the raising of children's mental images of themselves, but at the end of it all it is correct to honestly just let them go about their lives and doing what they will do.
If not because it's the best thing to do, then because nothing I could do would change it from occurring anyways, and what I can do may not be desired service regardless by others. It's wasted energy that potentially is as you have said, infringing upon Free Will possibly in some contexts.
Sigh. I don't normally admit it, but all of this really does just make me feel severely alienated from people. Caring so much for no reason does seem to annoy people or put others off. I honestly hate at times how much I care but also would never give up this level of caring I have for others. Maybe one day I'll find someone to pour all my cares towards so I won't be so...distraught over the way's of the societal world around me that I can't stop caring so stupidly much about...