05-16-2015, 03:35 AM
Its frustrating that I live in a society that encourages it, Isis. I am not attracted to children in that sense of desiring them.
I still find a 12 and 13 year old to be young enough to question how heavily they dress themselves in inappropriate ways. I think a 16 year old shouldn't be walking around in lingerie publicly, no different from children. I dont care much if theyre in a country with better education and lower ages of consent in their laws. I care when a country of influence is telling children, more so than teenagers 12 and under, Isis, regardless of puberty unless their developmental stages come noticeably sooner, up to 12 captures the whole range as far as the idea of a child goes for me, you don't need to agree on age, its a manner of individuality. A girl who's more self conscious at 8 may also be effected much more profoundly than a girl at 10. Childhood is a pretty...influential time.
My issue, my initial issue, is that i find lingerie attractive. Even on children apparently, and i think that's wrong and I've an issue with it.
Im finev with 18 year olds going out in lingerie. Or 50 year olds, or 70 who cares, they're grown up, they're maturem they're educated, intellectual, capable of making their choices hopefully a lot more efficacious than a child.
But a 16 year old, its like I'm being baited to feel guilty for finding someone underage attractive. At 8, its a huge difference than 16. For me and them. I dont want to see children in lingerie. Next thing i know we'll be okay with talking dirty to them bevause some pop star or disturbing manner of television encourages children to be more sexual verbally and not just physically...
Not that you know, there isnt a serious issue of pedophile trafficking rings in the US alone... that wouldn't unapologetically gain socially from making people feel like a little girl abducted in kidgerie had it coming.
I've fought with people on fb about this extensively. I am fine with your stance. But why the lack of any guidance for children of those ages?
You say gstring and refer to a woman. Ive seen what looked like a 10 year old wearing one. I am not talking about all ages. I'm not extremist. I'm not sexist. I'm not attracted directly to children. I dislike finding myself attracted to them at all, solely for them trying to by wearing, seriously, children's lingerie. Society isn't okay with that attraction, so why is it being taught and why am I blamed for feeling this way and not social programming?! I didn't wake up and say I'll find children in kinky clothing attractive. I do find kinky clothing attractive.
(Its sexy, and who doesn't like sexy?) Well, I do. When its a child. Brainwashed to think she must wear kinky clothes to be liked. Whos been pushed into it by a society that pushes it.
Maybe this is an issue of society and not how the children dress. Id attribute it to low level guidance and high amounts of social programming beibg ingested. Leave the news on and the cartoon shows and the Disney channel.
When we've got kids as young as 13 getting pregnant, something is going on. I don't know if its natural or not for humanity. But pregnant so early. The only other places that happens in.are other first world countries and third world countries where little girls are raped... in between it seems to really stop occurring a lot more often outside of those two areas.
I perrceive a problem. I think love can fix it. Why are we sexualizing children?
I still find a 12 and 13 year old to be young enough to question how heavily they dress themselves in inappropriate ways. I think a 16 year old shouldn't be walking around in lingerie publicly, no different from children. I dont care much if theyre in a country with better education and lower ages of consent in their laws. I care when a country of influence is telling children, more so than teenagers 12 and under, Isis, regardless of puberty unless their developmental stages come noticeably sooner, up to 12 captures the whole range as far as the idea of a child goes for me, you don't need to agree on age, its a manner of individuality. A girl who's more self conscious at 8 may also be effected much more profoundly than a girl at 10. Childhood is a pretty...influential time.
My issue, my initial issue, is that i find lingerie attractive. Even on children apparently, and i think that's wrong and I've an issue with it.
Im finev with 18 year olds going out in lingerie. Or 50 year olds, or 70 who cares, they're grown up, they're maturem they're educated, intellectual, capable of making their choices hopefully a lot more efficacious than a child.
But a 16 year old, its like I'm being baited to feel guilty for finding someone underage attractive. At 8, its a huge difference than 16. For me and them. I dont want to see children in lingerie. Next thing i know we'll be okay with talking dirty to them bevause some pop star or disturbing manner of television encourages children to be more sexual verbally and not just physically...
Not that you know, there isnt a serious issue of pedophile trafficking rings in the US alone... that wouldn't unapologetically gain socially from making people feel like a little girl abducted in kidgerie had it coming.
I've fought with people on fb about this extensively. I am fine with your stance. But why the lack of any guidance for children of those ages?
You say gstring and refer to a woman. Ive seen what looked like a 10 year old wearing one. I am not talking about all ages. I'm not extremist. I'm not sexist. I'm not attracted directly to children. I dislike finding myself attracted to them at all, solely for them trying to by wearing, seriously, children's lingerie. Society isn't okay with that attraction, so why is it being taught and why am I blamed for feeling this way and not social programming?! I didn't wake up and say I'll find children in kinky clothing attractive. I do find kinky clothing attractive.
(Its sexy, and who doesn't like sexy?) Well, I do. When its a child. Brainwashed to think she must wear kinky clothes to be liked. Whos been pushed into it by a society that pushes it.
Maybe this is an issue of society and not how the children dress. Id attribute it to low level guidance and high amounts of social programming beibg ingested. Leave the news on and the cartoon shows and the Disney channel.
When we've got kids as young as 13 getting pregnant, something is going on. I don't know if its natural or not for humanity. But pregnant so early. The only other places that happens in.are other first world countries and third world countries where little girls are raped... in between it seems to really stop occurring a lot more often outside of those two areas.
I perrceive a problem. I think love can fix it. Why are we sexualizing children?