05-18-2015, 10:17 AM
Isis may I just say ive been rereading your posts in this thread a few times across the night.
I wish our world was better in terms of nonjudgmental views. I wish I could just completely agree with you, and in a weird way, I actually do. I do think clothing is unnecessary in a sense that we use it to hide or accentuate ourselves, never realizing our body alone is sufficient as is always.
I dont think the clothing makes the person (See: The Suit Makes The Man) and I do think i should feel judgmental towards myself about finding clothing made to sexually accentuate erogenous zones attractive on children, which again, is all my issue is, which I am sorry for being so long in my explanations. I'll be honest, anyone below the age of 16 I'd have an issue with.
I wish I could just look, say, hey that's attractive, then be done with it in my mind and not care. But I do worry about how it'll effect them growing up. But then your side takes into account what mine doesn't especially since girls bully others much more in school settings, especially if they don't conform to conform to certain standards. Plus it is none of my business and their own free will to do as whatever they want to do or be. As far as i should care, I'll consider it for my daughter, assuming i ever have one.
So in a weird way...I'm agreeing with you ultimately...But still have my doubts and worry's over how it will effect them. But I try to be considerate of the depth behind your views and points. There is a lot... In the end I don't want to argue up to that point and flesh it all out. I'd rather just agree with you. I like your view. I want your view to be true. Best way in my mind to do that is to actually be open and considerate of said views. Which I really was lacking on and I apologize for that. I need to be better with that so. I'm working on it.
I wish our world was better in terms of nonjudgmental views. I wish I could just completely agree with you, and in a weird way, I actually do. I do think clothing is unnecessary in a sense that we use it to hide or accentuate ourselves, never realizing our body alone is sufficient as is always.
I dont think the clothing makes the person (See: The Suit Makes The Man) and I do think i should feel judgmental towards myself about finding clothing made to sexually accentuate erogenous zones attractive on children, which again, is all my issue is, which I am sorry for being so long in my explanations. I'll be honest, anyone below the age of 16 I'd have an issue with.
I wish I could just look, say, hey that's attractive, then be done with it in my mind and not care. But I do worry about how it'll effect them growing up. But then your side takes into account what mine doesn't especially since girls bully others much more in school settings, especially if they don't conform to conform to certain standards. Plus it is none of my business and their own free will to do as whatever they want to do or be. As far as i should care, I'll consider it for my daughter, assuming i ever have one.
So in a weird way...I'm agreeing with you ultimately...But still have my doubts and worry's over how it will effect them. But I try to be considerate of the depth behind your views and points. There is a lot... In the end I don't want to argue up to that point and flesh it all out. I'd rather just agree with you. I like your view. I want your view to be true. Best way in my mind to do that is to actually be open and considerate of said views. Which I really was lacking on and I apologize for that. I need to be better with that so. I'm working on it.