08-12-2010, 09:19 AM
Hi Josh,
I have had to work with this issue quite a bit. From my experience, lack of confidence and self-esteem arises from your conditioning during childhood, and is constantly reinforced as you go through life.
We are taught by religion that we are a sinners, and God rejects you because of your sin. The truth is in our 3-d bodies we make many many mistakes, but the Creator never rejects us, the creator loves us unconditionally.
We are taught by our schools that we are worthy if we attain high grades by repeating information that we are taught by a system of education. We are not necessarily taught to think for ourselves or to trust our own guidance and intuition.
Our parents often have damaged our self-esteem by using methods of disclipline in which their heart energy was blocked. For me personally, this was the most damaging to my self-esteem. Because your relationship with your parents is so primary, this has a very deep programming affect on you. So in your subconscious there are many triggers that cause reactions that may be perceived as "unloving" and then feed your self-judgement.
One key to healing is self-acceptance and self-forgiveness and self-love. And a will to release and transform these reactive behaviors that may be binding you in a cycle of self-judgement and self-hate. This is the energy work of opening up blockages in your chakras. There are many L/L Research channelings that speak of chakra work. You may also search for "self-love" and "self-forgiveness".
The other key is being fully grounded in the knowing that you are loved fully, completely and totally as you are. God loves you unconditionally. There is NOTHING that you can do or say that will ever separate you from God's love. You are a divine spark of the one, a child of the One Creator.
Think about that and feel how it opens your heart and then have gratitude!
I hope this helps Josh!
I have had to work with this issue quite a bit. From my experience, lack of confidence and self-esteem arises from your conditioning during childhood, and is constantly reinforced as you go through life.
We are taught by religion that we are a sinners, and God rejects you because of your sin. The truth is in our 3-d bodies we make many many mistakes, but the Creator never rejects us, the creator loves us unconditionally.
We are taught by our schools that we are worthy if we attain high grades by repeating information that we are taught by a system of education. We are not necessarily taught to think for ourselves or to trust our own guidance and intuition.
Our parents often have damaged our self-esteem by using methods of disclipline in which their heart energy was blocked. For me personally, this was the most damaging to my self-esteem. Because your relationship with your parents is so primary, this has a very deep programming affect on you. So in your subconscious there are many triggers that cause reactions that may be perceived as "unloving" and then feed your self-judgement.
One key to healing is self-acceptance and self-forgiveness and self-love. And a will to release and transform these reactive behaviors that may be binding you in a cycle of self-judgement and self-hate. This is the energy work of opening up blockages in your chakras. There are many L/L Research channelings that speak of chakra work. You may also search for "self-love" and "self-forgiveness".
The other key is being fully grounded in the knowing that you are loved fully, completely and totally as you are. God loves you unconditionally. There is NOTHING that you can do or say that will ever separate you from God's love. You are a divine spark of the one, a child of the One Creator.
Think about that and feel how it opens your heart and then have gratitude!
I hope this helps Josh!