08-16-2010, 03:22 PM
Well, I could live without the violent temper tantrums in the market, out walking, playing in the yard, before bed, upon waking up, before eating (chair wars). It is a bit much for me-- and rather embarrassing that people are now rated my parenting based on high stress situations-- even the neighbors are talking... "how come she can't control those kids." When I do assert myself I find I have to yell and posture to be heard and heeded. This is not my natural state and I would like it to cease! 
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They refuse to sleep through the night... evedryone is up at odd hours and that means I am too! It is just getting to be a bit much! If I leave them in their rooms they scream as if being racked and all the neighbors lights go on. Someone is eventually going to call the cops... and more embarrassment--- not to mention a hassle! I remeber seeing a show called th "nanny" or somthing like that where the triplets were running the household as well. It has not gottne to that point yet--- but I just abhore yelling! I feel sad that I am unable to address this issues with compassionate speech---
Perhaps I need a vacation--- LOL as if any mother or primary caregiver gets a vacation--- ever! :@
--fairyfarmgirl
:They refuse to sleep through the night... evedryone is up at odd hours and that means I am too! It is just getting to be a bit much! If I leave them in their rooms they scream as if being racked and all the neighbors lights go on. Someone is eventually going to call the cops... and more embarrassment--- not to mention a hassle! I remeber seeing a show called th "nanny" or somthing like that where the triplets were running the household as well. It has not gottne to that point yet--- but I just abhore yelling! I feel sad that I am unable to address this issues with compassionate speech---
Perhaps I need a vacation--- LOL as if any mother or primary caregiver gets a vacation--- ever! :@
--fairyfarmgirl