08-18-2010, 08:57 AM
I used to suffer from low self-esteem until I got tired of being stepped on. Then I decided to observe and find out why some people were esteemed and others were reviled and they were just standing there.
What I discovered is a confident person emits an odor that says, "right on" and others want to interact with that 'right on" type of stand up person. I noticed this because when I started to stand up straight and look people in the eye (a rather challenging exercise in courage as I was imprinted to be a "traditional" female in a patriarchal household)... I discovered people would look away first and based on their intentions either run for cover or want to be my friend.
I believe we are far more influenced by scent and tones (that we may not hear but feel in our bodies) than modern society recognizes.
The looking someone in the eye is essential for changing the body chemistry that created low self esteem... it happens very quickly with diligent and consistent effort. Consistency is a factor though. Half-a$$ed effort gets half-A$$ed results.
Ali Quadir--thank you so much for the way you described this--- I agree it is not something that can be charted.
Pere and all that are charting emotions--- the Sacral Chakra is essential to the energy system as well as the Root and feet chakras. Without these we would have no furnace or passion in which to ignite our Kundalini or have any motivation in which to accomplish anything.
The Sacral Chakra is a Sacred Chakra and the Orange Ray is equally sacred. Passion is an energy and as an energy it can be used for good or ill... the matter rests in the choices that are made.
Further without the orange ray there would be no way to open the HEART or even feel anything--- including LOVE. LOVE within itself contains Passion it is part of Unity Consciousness.
--fairyfarmgirl
What I discovered is a confident person emits an odor that says, "right on" and others want to interact with that 'right on" type of stand up person. I noticed this because when I started to stand up straight and look people in the eye (a rather challenging exercise in courage as I was imprinted to be a "traditional" female in a patriarchal household)... I discovered people would look away first and based on their intentions either run for cover or want to be my friend.
I believe we are far more influenced by scent and tones (that we may not hear but feel in our bodies) than modern society recognizes.
The looking someone in the eye is essential for changing the body chemistry that created low self esteem... it happens very quickly with diligent and consistent effort. Consistency is a factor though. Half-a$$ed effort gets half-A$$ed results.
Ali Quadir--thank you so much for the way you described this--- I agree it is not something that can be charted.
Pere and all that are charting emotions--- the Sacral Chakra is essential to the energy system as well as the Root and feet chakras. Without these we would have no furnace or passion in which to ignite our Kundalini or have any motivation in which to accomplish anything.
The Sacral Chakra is a Sacred Chakra and the Orange Ray is equally sacred. Passion is an energy and as an energy it can be used for good or ill... the matter rests in the choices that are made.
Further without the orange ray there would be no way to open the HEART or even feel anything--- including LOVE. LOVE within itself contains Passion it is part of Unity Consciousness.
--fairyfarmgirl