Reality Creation

[anagogy]

So you are saying basically that any manifestation is by its fundamental nature positive and it only becomes negative if you resist it. Though I totally understand that I can't help but think about moments where if I would have not put any resistance I would still have ended up doing things I don't want to do. There is probably resistance at the source of why I ended up at those situations, there was resistance from me to be part of those moments and there is resistance to forget about it because it bothered me at the time. Even to lessen resistance I have to resist resistance itself because it is already there naturally to me.

At the human level of vibration (3rd density), we are almost always going to have a little bit of "resistance".  In fact, that is what our particular experience of reality is -- a certain threshold of resistance to unity, which equals the illusion we experience currently.  However, resistance is always relative.  It is probably more useful to simply talk about "perceived resistance", because everyone is at a different place.  Two people could experience the exact same catalyst and one perceives extreme resistance while another perceives none.  The actual level is relative to pure undistorted unity (though there is really no point in trying to measure that).  A good way to summarize perceptual resistance is: one person's hell is another person's heaven. Another way: how much joy do I experience on a day to day basis.  

It is common for wanderers to experience more perceptual resistance than a native 3rd density.  That's why they often have allergies, depression, and personality disorders.  Obviously those are not always signs of wanderers.  It is interesting that many wanderers want to "remember" the density they hail from, because it would actually make the perceptual resistance increase, but it might also give them more tools to deal with that so it's kind of a trade off.  The reason it increases perceptual resistance is because an awareness of the higher degree of harmony of a higher density would heighten awareness of the absence of that.  Wanderers already have that to a certain degree subconsciously as faint memories, and that is why they inadvertently resist the planetary vibration.

What you call "resisting resistance" I call "fighting the trained momentum of thought".  Society trains us into a lot of resistant patterns of thought.  Very few escape that conditioning.  So we are actually taught and trained from a very early age to resist those spontaneous creative behaviors that proceed forth naturally from unity (for example: ignoring your emotions even when they are screaming "don't do this").  The best thing you can do when faced with doing tasks you don't like to not attempt to "resist it" but rather accept it as it is, (essentially be present with it), and then gently turn your thoughts or interpretations downstream away from resistance.  Essentially, what this boils down to is a kind of spiritual optimism.  Take a glass is half full approach, and assume the best.  Do what you have to do, since we all have responsibilities, (pay bills, go to work, whatever, but try to look for positive aspects in those things)  By doing this we activate vibrations closer to what is wanted, but not so far that the resistance of the vibrational jump throws us against a wall of negativity.  Trust me, oftentimes 'less is more'.  Just lean gently in the direction of what is wanted.  As you turn away from the resistance, more and more actual wanted experiences will naturally begin to manifest.    

I also understand resistance has the purpose of showing oneself what he is not. Because I have too much resistance I can only see what I am not. But on most occasions I resist some situations because I find no potential to feel pleasure in doing something or be part of something within myself. I feel like I resist so much things because I don't like to do them. But do I resist because every opportunity seems unpleasant or unpleasant opportunities present themselves more because I resist them?

Both.  The best practice you can get into vibrational wise is to sleep well, wake up refreshed, and get yourself into a really good mood before you go do whatever it is you do.  If you can master that, all actions taken from that vibrational place are more likely to take you towards what you are wanting rather than its exact opposite.  Every action births the next, remember that.  Always ask yourself: was this action inspired from a place of connection, or a place of separation?  Did you feel good about doing it or did you feel bad?  When you feel positive emotions your attention is on what is wanted, when you feel negative emotion your attention is on unwanted.  Always do a gut check.  Gently turn your attention to more positive interpretations till you feel your heart center glow with warmth and joy.  And then do whatever it is you were going to do.

Should my life be only a series of events of things I don't like to do?

Definitely not.  There is both positive and negative in everything.  Both are complementary parts of the magnet that is the spirit.  Learn to lean your attention towards the positive aspects and those patterns of consciousness will expand in your experienced reality.

Does manifesting pleasant situations requires to just absolutely accept every unpleasant situations without resistance?

It only requires attention be more on what is going right, than what is going wrong.  The more attention you pay to one, the bigger it gets whether it is fame, fortune, pain, or illness.  It just keeps growing or expanding.  Take illness for example.  Somebody with cancer might go to the doctor and have a tumor cut out of them, but if they are still spending their attention on the resistant thoughts/interpretation that gave rise to that unwanted tumor it will simply grow back in the course of time, or manifest in another, yet equally negative way.  And if they don't figure that out, it will just keep getting worse and worse.  The effect (manifested reality) is not the cause.  Outer changes are superficial and do not last long.  The vibration of which it is a crystallization is the thing of import.

But really we can just let go.  When things get too complicated, I just let go.  Stop thinking.  Rest in pure awareness.  Watch your emotions gradually rise to joy over time signalling your attention has withdrawn from the negative focus.  Consistent meditators naturally find their interpretations change to positive over time.  And as that interpretation becomes more and more positive, it will naturally find avenues of focus in its experience that will travel down extremely satisfying corridors.

Because I feel like if I just do that my life will end up being only doing what I don't like doing without resistance. Am I right to resist situations I find to be unpleasant or am I just an a****** who doesn't like anything?

The thing is, you can't release resistance without moving towards what is wanted.  Everything is just a congealing of thought.  The only thing that keeps you from the experiences you desire is resistance.  So no matter how you let it go, you are going to start moving towards what is wanted.  It defies materialist logic, but I'm telling you that's how it works.  The impulses WILL come.  Circumstances are actually always changing.  It is just that oftentimes they are changing to the same thing over and over again because someone is keeping the same patterns of thought active.  We are the creator.  Were there no resistance, things would manifest effortlessly.

Sorry if I become annoying about this, but I try seeing what would have been different in every situations with my life if I had not resisted and to me it would seem worst but I can only work with what has already happened. I have already found peace for what comes from now on but I try to understand what has been wrong in the past so I don't become my past.

It's not annoying.  I'm just offering a different perspective.  Try it on for size.  If you don't like it, you can always throw it in the trash.

Resistance....resistance .... resistance everywhere....

The funny thing I notice after talking about all of this is the more I try not to involve the ego in everything the more it shows up because I'm so strong at manifesting what I try not to manifest. That's kind of nasty and hilarious simultaneously.

Yeah, the word "try" is full of resistance.  At least, that is what Yoda taught me.