Moved in with STS friend, do I help him polarize?

[im_not_me]

Accept him, and set an example. Show him how powerful acceptance/forgiveness is, and living in the moment with love. Anything having to do with "manipulating" him to be STO will not benefit either of you in the long run. You've opened the door for him, now if he has anymore questions you should feel confident to answer them honestly (not with manipulation!!!). You'll know when the time is right to offer him the LOO or not - my guess is that it's likely soon. But don't push. The STO path is about "the light touch".

The lessons to be learned vary. Almost always these lessons include patience, tolerance, and the ability for the light touch.

My husband was near the narcissism spectrum when I met him (more just the drunk a****** spectrum) and it was a gradual process re-opening his heart. One of the most validating things he ever said to me was "Before you, I didn't know how good it felt to just be nice." So, having your own being passively alter another is possible, but the passive altering isn't fasciliated until you cultivate a level of acceptance.

Really, if you haven't learned the trick to acceptance yet, trust me, it's powerful. If I see something I don't like in my daily rounds, I do my best to accept it and not reject it. And somehow, somewhere, down the line, the "thing" finds itself in a more pleasurable configuration, without my active manipulation, just by being transformed by my shift in energy. It's best not to have this as an "agenda" though because if you start trying to use it for direct manipulation it changes it's tone. But just always remember that everything is well as it is, but we're also on a path where everything is moving closer to 4D so things are "brightening". The best course of action is to work on the self so that we can be better beacons/crystals/anchors so that we can increase the levels of light more and more efficiently.

Thank you Jade.

Let me be clear, I wasn't planning on manipulating him into becoming STO, that would be a terrible idea and wouldnt help me progress as STO either!

I was trying to express I might have to be manipulative to deprogram him into being able to make the choice himself. At this point I think I've decided to just try and set an example like most of you suggest and do my best to just let him have the ability to chose for himself.

Honestly, I think he will end up becoming STO, but it will take probably a few years to get to that point.

Thank you all for your suggestions and helpful outlook, I certainly will take all your advice on setting the example and doing my best to provide him the free will and tools to become educated on LOO, provided when the time is right.

For now, I shall endure the hard part and let time do most the work. He isn't a clean slate, and has alot of emotional wounds. Of course, as his friend I will shed love and light, but I won't overstep.