I want to send you love too Ahktu.
Sometimes we help people more by standing up to them - don't feel you have to be a doormat to be of service. Nor dose standing up to people have to be aggressive or defensive.
The advice here is fantastic, when you find your own power and hold your own space then you will have the room to be the real you.
You will have the confidence to stand up and look people in the eye and radiate all that you are - people will see your love and strength and that will be of far more service to them than letting them dump baggage on you.
Sometimes we help people more by standing up to them - don't feel you have to be a doormat to be of service. Nor dose standing up to people have to be aggressive or defensive.
The advice here is fantastic, when you find your own power and hold your own space then you will have the room to be the real you.
You will have the confidence to stand up and look people in the eye and radiate all that you are - people will see your love and strength and that will be of far more service to them than letting them dump baggage on you.