10-18-2010, 09:40 PM
Yeah, romantic relationships make people happy. But that happiness comes from a deeper sense of fulfillment that a relationship has the potential to offer. While not in a relationship, you may not have that deeper sense of fulfillment. When you enter into a relationship with another self, you're talking about matters of the yellow ray, two self-aware entities providing catalyst to eachother in the special way that only they can. If the situation is just right, and both people are seeking to open the heart, than this framework of yellow ray can really pave the way to full radiance of green ray energy!
I know this because of one person that I met while I lived in Minnesota, who I am extremely compatible with in yellow ray. The possibilities for an open and stable relationship leading to brilliant green ray exchange with this wonderful person were extremely apparent, almost jumping out at me. This hasn't come into actualization because I moved away not long after I met her, something that I'm personally dealing with, and trying to follow my inner guidance on.
It's true that everything is inside you, and the ability to offer catalyst to yourself is limitless. But we're so used to limiting ourselves that it's almost impossible at this point to polarize alone. We're never alone on this planet in regards to other human beings; but a relationship like you talk about offers a different kind of catalyst. I don't think you can offer that kind of catalyst to yourself. You need an other self! But why do you feel like you should look for someone special? If you're trying to find something that you think you don't have, you're taking away from your "happiness in solitude". You are all things, so your potential for the relationship that will offer you fulfillment is there. It's just not in manifestation right now. I say, don't try to find happiness in solitude, but REALIZE happiness together with your fellow human beings right now, without a romantic yellow ray relationship, UNTIL you are blessed with a person who is compatible with you in yellow ray and also seeking to open the heart. At that point, it will be like a dollop of delicious sour cream on the warm potatoes you were already enjoying! Basically, align the lower chakras and the other-self framework that is needed to open the heart chakra will fall into your lap, because you will be ready for it at that point.
You say you've completely accepted and unconditionally loved two women in the past two months. How is this different from unconditionally loving and accepting other people? Why do you think they didn't unconditionally love you? Were they not ready for unconditional love yet? Did they not want to enter into a relationship?
Good luck, my friend.
I know this because of one person that I met while I lived in Minnesota, who I am extremely compatible with in yellow ray. The possibilities for an open and stable relationship leading to brilliant green ray exchange with this wonderful person were extremely apparent, almost jumping out at me. This hasn't come into actualization because I moved away not long after I met her, something that I'm personally dealing with, and trying to follow my inner guidance on.
It's true that everything is inside you, and the ability to offer catalyst to yourself is limitless. But we're so used to limiting ourselves that it's almost impossible at this point to polarize alone. We're never alone on this planet in regards to other human beings; but a relationship like you talk about offers a different kind of catalyst. I don't think you can offer that kind of catalyst to yourself. You need an other self! But why do you feel like you should look for someone special? If you're trying to find something that you think you don't have, you're taking away from your "happiness in solitude". You are all things, so your potential for the relationship that will offer you fulfillment is there. It's just not in manifestation right now. I say, don't try to find happiness in solitude, but REALIZE happiness together with your fellow human beings right now, without a romantic yellow ray relationship, UNTIL you are blessed with a person who is compatible with you in yellow ray and also seeking to open the heart. At that point, it will be like a dollop of delicious sour cream on the warm potatoes you were already enjoying! Basically, align the lower chakras and the other-self framework that is needed to open the heart chakra will fall into your lap, because you will be ready for it at that point.
You say you've completely accepted and unconditionally loved two women in the past two months. How is this different from unconditionally loving and accepting other people? Why do you think they didn't unconditionally love you? Were they not ready for unconditional love yet? Did they not want to enter into a relationship?
Good luck, my friend.