There is no mutual service possible.

[Minyatur]

I'd think the service simply manifest over time and not at the moment it could be desired to manifest.

What?

I would think that an intent of service between two cocious beings who are polarized differently is impossible only on the seemings of the present moment.

I don't think the drive of intent ever is lost, so let's say a negative one rejects the love of a positive one, this does not mean that it won't be remembered at a later time and that the light offered will be accepted and connected to in a moment of healing.