There is no mutual service possible.

[Turtle]

Well, in the big picture, ALL interactions with each other are services, whether it's understood or not.  Every moment is another teach\learning opportunity.

Definitely.

To clarify my original post, I meant that eventually one gets to a point of development where nothing but shallow surface experiences (light skirmishes) occur between oppositely polarized beings. There's sooooo much room for this, and it's interesting to say the least, haha. Any catalyst that would significantly affect someone in an adverse way eventually fades out of the picture, since the more dramatic experiences are no longer needed for growth

Or in short, what's tolerated as a mutual service becomes a very short list of things, lol.