10-26-2010, 06:15 PM
My thoughts exactly.
Meerle, your basic message, that we should not stop being ourselves, I fully support that.. And I want that to be known most of all. Because it's very important. No one is worth giving up yourself for. And if you're not yourself in a relationship, it's not really your relationship anyway.
Women spend a lot of time in front of a mirror using various products most of which I don't even know the name of
Think about it, this isn't much different.
If we act confident. Imagine we change just the body posture, not only will we actually feel more confident, people will respond to us and treat us in a way that strengthens our feeling of confidence. Now add directness and we strengthen the same feeling even more. It's not about acting some role or dominating anyone. It's about mastering life.
It seems to me, if a guy is more confident and direct he's more himself and shows more of himself. He'll be more relaxed more easy going, he'll bring out the best in people and is, hopefully, more fun to be around.
Meerle, your basic message, that we should not stop being ourselves, I fully support that.. And I want that to be known most of all. Because it's very important. No one is worth giving up yourself for. And if you're not yourself in a relationship, it's not really your relationship anyway.
Women spend a lot of time in front of a mirror using various products most of which I don't even know the name of
Think about it, this isn't much different.If we act confident. Imagine we change just the body posture, not only will we actually feel more confident, people will respond to us and treat us in a way that strengthens our feeling of confidence. Now add directness and we strengthen the same feeling even more. It's not about acting some role or dominating anyone. It's about mastering life.
It seems to me, if a guy is more confident and direct he's more himself and shows more of himself. He'll be more relaxed more easy going, he'll bring out the best in people and is, hopefully, more fun to be around.