10-03-2017, 08:02 PM
(10-03-2017, 11:24 AM)Ashim Wrote: Can you ascend if you still identify with either male or female? If so, how far, into which density and how?
I don't believe ascension has anything to do with the sexual energy that we most identify with. Our violet ray fingerprint (for want of a better term) denotes our readiness to ascend. Though I do think a stable, or consistent sense of gender identity could act as an indicator for a more balanced individual.
(10-03-2017, 11:24 AM)Ashim Wrote: Is there a correlation between male/female and polarity? If so, do these biases become confused during the cycle?
This context of polarity is quite different to your initial query, if I understand you correctly, because it refers to metaphysics. Gender identity is about which sexual expression we most identify with, as far as I currently understand it. Biological sex is self evident (undo your zip for the small (or large) print). Polarity is more about our psychological maturity. Service to others is the natural outgrowth of psychological maturity, and service to self is the alternative type of maturity that knowingly exploits the psychological immaturity of others. Our confusion is merely an indicator that we have yet to develop a clear communication with our higher selves. I'm sure most folks, have at one time or another had the opportunity to meet a new understanding of "personal identity". It's just easier to trust in a cultural or ideological narrative of who we are and what we stand for.
So in the abstract, metaphysical sense, you could equate the word "female" with one path, and the word "male" with the other path. This terminology bears no relevance to our sexual identity
or gender preference. Neither does it shed any light (I suspect) on what you are actually asking.
If I suspect correctly, then no, there is no correlation between gender preference and harvestability ( ie, psychological maturity)
(10-03-2017, 11:24 AM)Ashim Wrote: Chaos anyone?
When I was in my mid teens I attempted to give oral to a close acquaintance. I would say more but their identity should remain unknown. What I learn't from that experience was that I was driven by my hormonal urges and I had no opportunity at the time to experiment with the opposite sex. I quickly learned which polarity I was oriented to because I did not enjoy it!
You could call it a process of distillation

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