Which is more important?

[Plenum]

and - of course - it goes without saying that such changes are not easy or effortless to make.

And before you can even BEGIN, you have to have some sort of trust or confidence that such things are even POSSIBLE.

This usually requires an experience of genuine love - or in more pragmatic terms - GENUINE ACCEPTANCE.

To experience Genuine Acceptance in person is something truly remarkable if you've never tasted it before.  Like 100%, no holding back, no conditions, no contract type Acceptance.

This is one of the rarest Jewels in planet earth experience, but it's the thing which can turn things around for you.