10-25-2018, 02:07 PM
It sounds to me like what is happening is that even though you realize they are criticizing "others", and they believe they are criticizing "others", when you hear their words, on a deep level you know they are being said about you - and in fact, they are being said about the person speaking who is speaking them, and about everyone, all of creation.
What you can do is try to develop compassion for the one who speaks such harsh words but realizes not what towards. Truly they feel these thoughts within towards the self, and then reality gives them an exaggerated picture of that which they reject. And then those of us who are trying to keep our hearts open get caught in the backlash. Our catalyst is to accept and love what is happening in the moment, but realizing that the person is speaking of an inner pain and rejection that we all feel universally as part of the collective is a good place to start. This pain isn't personal. It is part of the Creator's plan, however, that we all experience this pain in a unique and personal way.
What you can do is try to develop compassion for the one who speaks such harsh words but realizes not what towards. Truly they feel these thoughts within towards the self, and then reality gives them an exaggerated picture of that which they reject. And then those of us who are trying to keep our hearts open get caught in the backlash. Our catalyst is to accept and love what is happening in the moment, but realizing that the person is speaking of an inner pain and rejection that we all feel universally as part of the collective is a good place to start. This pain isn't personal. It is part of the Creator's plan, however, that we all experience this pain in a unique and personal way.
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