INFP question

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I'm an INFP(introversion, intuition, feeling, perception) close to the 100% extreme. Why it fucking hurts when people around judge others ? Like anytime i hear a judgemental remark i feel my heart aching and my mind contracting. I dont want to change how others view reality and other persons and i know that the judging type is also an expression of the One Infinite, but i want to change something in my belief system to not feel like s***.

Anyone have any experience with this and any advices ?

Being extremely sensitive to other people's attitudes and stances towards oneself is generally a sign of low or undeveloped emotional strength, especially a feeling and understanding of one's own self.

Paying attention to one's own emotions, discerning which emotions belong to the self, and expressing them can start one on the way to a stable understanding of one's self, and the subsequent strengthening of the orange chakra.

A person with a healthy understanding of his/her own self and a sufficiently healthy orange chakra would still be affected by negative attitudes towards itself or others in the society by the society, but this would take the form of getting tired due to such negative energies in the society than getting blocked in his/her chakras.