Giving to Yourself

[Diana]

Thank you all for your wonderful replies.

So Diana, we can't plan or choose where to send our love and light as per Ra?

I mean I like to send where it's needed, though I am specific about what group.
Maybe I shouldn't be so choosy.
I do want anthros in their reality to be healed.

Sure, you can plan and have goals. Just don't be attached to the outcome. Ra also said to help those you come across (something about if you come across a starving entity, the proper response is to feed that entity).

I think Ra was referring to control—which is why I say don't be attached to the outcome. Send the love and healing, but send it freely, to be and do what it will. 

I often give cash to the homeless. I don't judge whether or not they are worthy of it, and I don't tell them or even think about what they can do with my gift. If the homeless person needs a bottle of whiskey, so be it. Once the money leaves my hands it's that person's choice how to use it. I don't wait around for the second chapter of that story.