i heard that the timeline split being based on STO/STS was "loving misinformation"

[kristina]

im not a big fan of the sto/sts way of viewing things. would it not be MUCH simpler and clearer to simply judge a being's level of development based on their level of empathy? something like an empathy quotient. empathy is the key underlying quality, empathy being defined as awareness and consideration towards others. (you could also say awareness is the key quality, they go hand in hand, more empathy means you have more awareness, more awareness means you gain more empathy. awareness is perhaps a more fundamental term but i'll use empathy for now since it conveys the idea of being more considerate and loving to others which is the whole point of having more awareness.)

the more empathy, the more accepting, forgiving, loving, etc. a being is (traits associated with sto). the less empathy, the more controlling and less loving (which makes one selfish) a being is (traits associated with sts). the more empathy, the more self responsible a being is as they realize it would make no sense to want another being to do their work for them as they are that other being. the less empathy, the more other responsible they would be as theyre still entertaining the illusion of separation. this is what i mean by it's the key quality.

if it's all about empathy, then why not just measure empathy? is that not the whole goal of this game? to develop one's level of awareness/empathy and reach unity consciousness? seems like a good way to view things to me cuts right to the chase. yes, i like it quite a lot!

A friend and I were talking about pigeon holing something and I find it is very common for human beings to want to do this in order to understand something and I also think it is the way of this density and part of the illusion. "Duality" as my friend called it in our conversation. There is a sliding scale of empathetic ways in a human beings mental/emotional framework that is good because that leans toward forgiveness and acceptance which is very STO to even suggest we could have a sliding scale. Though I must admit it is most difficult in such cases where we have someone who preys upon the young and weak. A very positive individual will find a way to find an area in which they can freely forgive such an act as in Jesus forgiving murderers. I agree that things are seen in black and white, a label slapped on it and a way we go! But the fact is, this is a dualistic illusion and so there will be a line drawn in the sand at times and I am assuming only an STO individual would give another leniency as to say it is a grey area. I do not feel that a STS would ever leave the safety of the black and white to show leniency. Positive polarity individuals are always trying to find the good in the bad and the negative polarity is always trying to find the reason why the good IS bad for everyone as it seems to be a loss of control. This is part of the spiritual "evolution" of the positively polarizing individual, is that it finds good in every experience that comes before it and utilizes the experience to heal itself, to forgive others and itself therefore learning the ways of love and understanding. It is really ok if we know that there is two ways; one of positive polarity and one of negative polarity...... and then the sinkhole of indifference (the true grey area and is not a way at all as it's a wash). I mean when we are speaking about electricity no one shrugs at the fact that you must have a negative wire and a positive wire to produce the current? No one goes off on benders about electricity lol. Try having two negative wires and make a current. Good luck Chuck. It doesn't work that way. It will never work that way in 3rd density. Just like the positively polarizing literally needs the negative polarizing to refine the choice of polarity which is exactly what was created when the veil was lowered between the subconscious mind and the conscious mind. It creates a dynamic tension between the two which creates the flow or current of movement.