01-27-2011, 02:54 PM
(01-25-2011, 03:37 PM)Ens Entium Wrote: Has this happened to you in romantic relationships? What questions do usually ask yourself when after the "withering" of whatever it was has happened?
Actually, no. It's only been in the case of friendships, and even then not long term where the whole relationship withers, only certain aspects over short periods of time.
I try to ask myself: "What is my higher self trying to show me by orchestrating these events that I can't understand at this time?" or "For what purpose of learning have I allowed this to come about?"
To tie it back into the original thread topic: I see now that my higher self was acting with the fire of wisdom, tempered with complete and total love in allowing this to occur. What first seemed like a tragedy is actually an incredible gift. Not only has it helped me learn the valuable lessons of not allowing your desires to steer your incarnation, and not to grasp or cling to ephemeral things, as Meerie says. But, the insurance money I was able to collect is actually carrying me through a transitional period right now. Can you say pre-incarnationally planned?
Oooh, synchronicity, Meerie! Maybe channeling Michael or reading Michael channelings can help you connect with your higher self?