Here's the story.
I was talking to my first ex. I'm so thankful for what she's done to me. She was the first person to say I was an Indigo. we broke up and have been broken up ever since for the past i dunno 8 years. However I always come back to her to say thanks because she is the reason I started to learn about Indigos, and what sparked me to get back into spirituality in the long run. I still love her but I know she is married. I am happy for her marriage very much as this is the first husband she's had that is not abusive. She's been remarried twice and this is her third husband. She has 2 kids. 1 kid from each of the proceeding fathers. She is 30.
She's been with this current husband for 3 years. The current husband is claiming he's the complete antithesis of jealousy. As if he's above jealousy.
We haven't talked for years and now she is telling me she is trying to have an open relationship with her husband. Which hasn't been the first time.
Next she tells me she meets some guy at her work, and she's wondering about whether or not she wants to bring him into the relationship. All of a sudden I just felt like I knew this was going to end her marriage, her one stable marriage. Those two kids are going to be left without another father yet again. Neither of the guys are bi, but even then it doesn't matter, someone is bound to get jealous and someone is bound to overstep something somehow somewhere.
When I tell anyone something, they don't agree and say I don't know them. As if they are above the basic archetypes. I am sitting and watching the pieces fall into place, it always happens how I see things are going to happen. I understand the patterns, and yet I still cry seeing it. I know what is to happen, and they always think they are above that.
The same things are said with every relationship that is about to fail, we are better than that. It won't happen to us.
the first thing I told her was this is going to f*** up your marriage. Then she said you don't know us or Jason, you don't know how we work, we've been making it work for 3 years. This is who i am.
So far I don't know if I made the right choice to call her the next morning. All I've done is the same mistake I've always done, try to control others lives with what I know. At least that what it seems like. I called to say I couldn't continue being friends just to watch her kids suffer the consequences of her actions.
I don't know if I made the right choice. I just know I feel pain, partly from her actions, and also from the idea that I tried to control someone and their life again. What is wrong with me?
I was talking to my first ex. I'm so thankful for what she's done to me. She was the first person to say I was an Indigo. we broke up and have been broken up ever since for the past i dunno 8 years. However I always come back to her to say thanks because she is the reason I started to learn about Indigos, and what sparked me to get back into spirituality in the long run. I still love her but I know she is married. I am happy for her marriage very much as this is the first husband she's had that is not abusive. She's been remarried twice and this is her third husband. She has 2 kids. 1 kid from each of the proceeding fathers. She is 30.
She's been with this current husband for 3 years. The current husband is claiming he's the complete antithesis of jealousy. As if he's above jealousy.
We haven't talked for years and now she is telling me she is trying to have an open relationship with her husband. Which hasn't been the first time.
Next she tells me she meets some guy at her work, and she's wondering about whether or not she wants to bring him into the relationship. All of a sudden I just felt like I knew this was going to end her marriage, her one stable marriage. Those two kids are going to be left without another father yet again. Neither of the guys are bi, but even then it doesn't matter, someone is bound to get jealous and someone is bound to overstep something somehow somewhere.
When I tell anyone something, they don't agree and say I don't know them. As if they are above the basic archetypes. I am sitting and watching the pieces fall into place, it always happens how I see things are going to happen. I understand the patterns, and yet I still cry seeing it. I know what is to happen, and they always think they are above that.
The same things are said with every relationship that is about to fail, we are better than that. It won't happen to us.
the first thing I told her was this is going to f*** up your marriage. Then she said you don't know us or Jason, you don't know how we work, we've been making it work for 3 years. This is who i am.
So far I don't know if I made the right choice to call her the next morning. All I've done is the same mistake I've always done, try to control others lives with what I know. At least that what it seems like. I called to say I couldn't continue being friends just to watch her kids suffer the consequences of her actions.
I don't know if I made the right choice. I just know I feel pain, partly from her actions, and also from the idea that I tried to control someone and their life again. What is wrong with me?
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