Human Relationships and the Concept of Judgment

[tadeus]

This could mean that you still have things you wished to learn/experience before releasing your little will to your greater will. There are things we program to learn before the incarnation, it's possible that if these are very important to you to learn, you will not find it possible to completely release your will and give yourself up fully before you have worked enough with those catalysts.

On the other hand, you have complete freewill and can at any time during the incarnation ask for all the preparations you have made to be replaced instead by the will of the One Infinite Creator. After all, the One knows even better than us what we need to learn.

That is pretty much what I have done now. I feel I have consciously totally given my self as an instrument. I don't feel the need to look up too far in the future to plan my progress. I just go with the flow. I do still plan though, like planning vacations in advance and stuff like that.  But life pretty much just happens to me now.

It seems that the differences of handling the situation are small, but you have much more experience in doing it.

Yesterday i have read a channeling that fits good to the situation:

March 26, 2016, Saturday Meditation

Group question: Our question today deals with the idea of pre-incarnative planning and people experiencing the catalyst they need to learn their personal lessons. How can we reconcile the idea that people experience what they need for their personal growth with our desire to serve and relieve other souls of their suffering? Is there a line between allowing people to learn their lessons versus attempting to relieve a person of their suffering?

(Jim channeling)

I am Hatonn and come in the name of Jesus, the Christ, to speak through this instrument and we are most grateful to be invited by your group this afternoon.
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